What an idiot i am! I thought the plug for the ATX 12v Power Connector was moduler, didn't realise it was hard wired and i never even gave that plug a second look, cannot believe it haha.
Thank you so much for your help unksol, this problem is solved, next time i might pay more attention! I'm really new to this so sorry i confused you, i myself was in over my head with this but you bailed me out, big thanks!
no problem. I kinda figured you got all excited unboxing it and looking at the cables