You can update with the piledriver installed but in some cares the system will not boot at all in that situation you need to use the phenom to update it.
If you already have a phenom installed in the motherboard update it now, this will make sure that you do not face any problems while installing piledriver.
I dont have an extra AMD cpu. I'm going to contact a buddy of mine to see if he does. The price is just too good to let this mb go. Thanks again for your response.