Thanks for everyone's help so of now but this is what I got my choices down to.
If you have an opinion/suggestion please let me know.
So far: Bold is what I prefer.
CPU: Intel Core i5-2500K Sandy Bridge 3.3GHz
Memory: CORSAIR Vengeance 12GB (3 x 4GB) 240-Pin DDR3 SDRAM DDR3 1600 (PC3 12800) Desktop Memory Model CMZ12GX3M3A1600C9 (rather have 12gb)
Memory: CORSAIR Vengeance 16GB (4 x 4GB) 240-Pin DDR3 SDRAM DDR3 1600 (PC3 12800) Desktop Memory Model CML16GX3M4A1600C9B
Case: Rosewill THOR V2
Case: COOLER MASTER HAF 932
Case: COOLER MASTER CM Storm Series Trooper
PSU: CORSAIR Professional Series HX850
PSU: OCZ ZX Series 850W
Mobo: ASRock Z68 Extreme4 GEN3 LGA 1155 Intel Z68 HDMI SATA 6Gb/s USB 3.0 ATX Intel Motherboard
Mobo: MSI Z68A-GD80 (G3) LGA 1155 Intel Z68 HDMI SATA 6Gb/s USB 3.0 ATX Intel Motherboard with UEFI BIOS
Mobo: ASUS P8Z68-V PRO/GEN3 LGA 1155 Intel Z68 HDMI SATA 6Gb/s USB 3.0 ATX Intel Motherboard with UEFI BIOS
23" Monitor: 2 x ASUS VG236HE Black 23"
24" Monitor: 2 x Dell U2412M
24" Monitor: 2 x ASUS VS Series VS247H-P Black 23.6"
27" Monitor: 2 x SAMSUNG P2770FH ToC Rose Black 27"
27" Monitor 2 x ASUS VE278Q Black 27"
27" Monitor 2 x Acer HN274 27"
SSD: SAMSUNG 830 Series 128GB
SSD: Crucial M4 128GB
SSD: Kingston HyperX 128GB
SSD: Corsair Force Series GT 120GB
CPU fan: Scythe Ninja 3 SCNJ-3000 120mm Sleeve CPU Cooler
CPU fan: COOLER MASTER Hyper 212 EVO
CPU fan: ZALMAN CNPS9900MAX-B 135mm Long life bearing CPU Cooler Blue LED
Just get 2 screens, for Eyefinity you need very strong video cards to support that kind of res.
For Memory, get a 8GB kit Vengeance, you won't see any difference between 8 and 16 gb unless you do photoshop/video editting.
For PSU, get either OCZ ZX 850W Gold or Corsair AX series. They both got excellent reviews from various professional sites.
For coolers, if you wanna go for maximum air cooler performance, get Silver Arrow. Its the best air cooler on the market at this moment. Its con: heavy, stress on motherboard due to weight, can be as expensive as water cooling set up.
If you wanna go for best performance/price air cooler: Get Hyper 212+ Evo or Corsair A70, whichever cheaper, they both offer exceptional cooling capabilities for the price.
If you wanna go for closed loop water cooling set up: Get Corsair H80 or H100 (depends on your case if it supports dual 120 mm fans set up on top or not). The Corsair H80 is about same in price with the Silver Arrow, and cooling capability is slightly less than Silver Arrow at extreme overclocking 4.8 Ghz+. If you want the best of the best cooler, get Corsair H100, it beats everything on the market right now exept for custom water cooling which is 2-3 times as expensive.
For SSD, of the 4 choices you listed, I would go for Kingston Hyperx, but if you can expand the list, go for Vertex 3/Vertex 3 Max IOPS since its the fastest of all sandforce 3.
For Mobo, I would go for Asus P8Z68V-Pro/Gen3 because ASUS as a brand quality is better than Asrock.
as for monitor it depends on whether you really need that fancy 3d for your gaming... as for me i don't need 3d for gaming so i would lean towards a good... 23inch ips screen... also... gaming in 3d will be more hardware demanding... not to say... a good... 27 inch ips screen would be very expensive... as for storage you can keep all of it and get a ssd or another hard drive should you store a lot of data in your pc....