Oh god, I just found out that the guys who said it was supposed to be like that were right D: I looked on neweggs picture, zoomed in, and the gold pin thing doesnt go down all the way on the same place as mine.
I also googled some threads and saw the same thing with some other cards. D: I heard a little pop noise when I pulled the card out and when I looked there it looked like it was chipped off.
Lolol, oh well, I'll just get a new one since they already shipped it, mine looked kinda dusty out of the box anyways.
Thanks for your help, and sorry for being such a newb, this is my first time building a computer ;/.
Managed to get everything set up, except I got a bad power supply so I bought a different one.