Hmm, since they are very closely priced the Phenom II 965 will give you the better balanced performance. It is older architecture but it is also better suited for current applications, I would go with the 965BE.
Thats only Gaming synthetics....they are a guide but far from the holy bible of things. The FX 41XX is only useful as a make way chip until PD, other than that its very iffy. The BD ship has sailed, this close to PD its not worth the investment.