Take a look at the Toshibas and Pioneers. They're both quite good performers.
A DVD decoder essentially takes some stress off of your video card. It will hardware decode DVDs, allowing for smoother playback, especially if you've got a slower computer. Most newer computers won't need a DVD decoder to play the DVDs though.
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