I open to any changes that will help with fps, the build is for gaming running top end graphics isnt the most important thing for me but it needs to run over 40 fps. Right now I sit at 12 fps (i am running a phenom 9950 with a radeon 3850 which i know is old) when raiding on world of warcraft. Budget is around $500 the less I spend the better.
Both the CPUs are the same link and its a good CPU for WOW and for the price. As for the motherboard I suggest you get a cheaper H series as you can't overclock the i3 anyway. You could spend the money saved on getting a better GPU.
If it is a 560 TI or 6950 you were trying to link for video cards, its probably good without us even really having to look at it. Most video card manufacturers are about the same in quality and both these two types provide almost the same level of performance. It just depends on which particular game you are wanting to play as to which one does slightly better in it.