That's a really good idea while i figure out some other way to run it (this might be the day i upgrade to another card). Thank you Thently!
I still wish i knew what i did! It seems so odd that everything else works fine but the fan...
Go to services and make sure Com+ Event System and System Event Notification are running. These were turned off on my machine by other tweaking software. After these were enabled then Nvidia Performance Device Rules worked fine with a step less fan control.