AMD phenom 965 black edition cooler

My friend has that CPU and runs a Cooler Master 212 EVO, it's probably a little overkill actually unless your OCing but for $35 it pays to go a little over kill.

http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E168...

is it silent than his stock cooler?

Yes it makes less noise than the stock cooler for sure, I can't really hear it when I'm over there and he keeps the side of his case off and only has two other case fans. I also run the TX3 which is the smaller version and I never hear my CPU cooler, I do have a lot of fans though.

http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E168...

Get this. $19.99 after MIR.

You can get the above too, but it's more expensive.

what i need is a good and silent cooler for it. I use his stock cooler but is too noise and i want to change it.
I want to be silent as possible

hey I know this is out of topic, but which is better this cpu with a discrete card or the a10 5800k?

P2 and a discrete card.

can you please come back at the topic ?  

I have a Phenom X4 965 and am running this cooler right now: http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E168...

It's fairly quiet- definitely better than the horrible noise the stock cooler makes when the tiny fan spins up to 4000rpm- and it's MUCH more effective at cooling. The single fan was enough to keep me around 45c under stress tests. Overclocked, I added a second fan and still stay under 50c. For $20, it's hard to go wrong.  

Go with what ocmusicjunkie proposed or go with a Hyper 212 + or Evo.

I went with the Tx3 Evo, but only because there was no room to fit a 212.