Good secs and gaming don't really go together
(what you want is pretty girl)
Seriously though don't waste money on the i7. Get the 3570K. And a far cheaper mobo. Use the saved money to take a nice girl out maybe it will lead to good secs later
Considering I have had a lovely girlfriend for 2 years, I don't think that's gonna be a problem..
Cheers for the advice, although I must say this is a forum on computers and hardware, not relationship tips.