According to the website your processor does not support 1600 mhz ram. I'm not a pro, I don't know if that means you'll only get 1333 performance out of it or if it means it won't work at all. I'm still pretty new myself. The 1333 is only like 3 dollars cheaper but I'd go with that if that's what your supported for.
The AMD Phenom II X4 965 Black Edition on Newegg has some nice combo deals that can lower your costs if you want to shop around. My best advice with Newegg is to shop for combo deals, and look for free shipping if you can.
AM3+ supports up to 1866 Mhz. I run the regular M5A97 with a 955 Processor. I can clock the ram above 1600 Mhz, but it's not much of a difference. Altogether I like all the items you picked. It's very similar to my build. The PSU will be very very quiet. I suggest an aftermarket heat sink, so you can overclock that 965 about 1 Ghz higher than stock spec.