search your motherboard's chipset and it should tell you with which cpu's its compatible with. some older mobos provide bios updates to support newer cpu's
Isn't AMD Phenom Quad-Core (A) 9xxx series (AM2+) what you're after? That's the first Phenom not the Phenom II which matches your 9650 which im guessing is in the 9000 series? I'm not 100% but judging from the information you gave it would lead me to think that it is compatible.
nvm i did some research on it and found it thanks for telling me about updating my bios i thought people only use bios to overclock I learned something today ^.^