Sunius's build is excellent. Your build has a bunch of less-than-great choices, including the 16 GB of RAM and your use of an APU rather than a CPU. Also, do you really plan on watching blu-ray? Otherwise a CD/DVD combo is about $40 cheaper.
Compared to Sunius's build, I might recommend trying to push the CPU up to a 2400 or 2500. (Also if you're not overclocking, you don't necessarily need a Z68/77 motherboard.) The 2300 just has a somewhat slow non-turbo speed.
Sweet thanks for that
I still dont know for CERTAIN that I WILL need a monitor as i may be able to just hold back on getting the PC for a few weeks in which case i SHOULD have the money to get your first build AND a monitor but thanks ALOT!!!!
You'll always want to connect your monitor/TV/Whatever to your graphics card, and not the motherboard. Motherboard connectors are made for people who don't play games and will gladly use integrated graphics.
HD 6870 comes will HDMI port, while GTX 560 Ti comes with mini HDMI port, but has mini HDMI - HDMI convertor in its package, so there would be no problems connecting an HDMI device to it either.