? I've seen plenty videos of people using a gtx 560 to play BF3 while playing on high-ultra 1080p and getting smooth fps.
Ask yourself "if the GTX560 plays BF3 ultra and records why on earth does anyone buy anyhting better than a gtx560"?
GTX560 can't play at ultra with 60FPS average at 1080 (youtube is irrelevent it's a simple fact the card can't do it), It can manage high if you dont mind serious dips, medium if you want decent steady FPS. Now if you add in FRAPS recording which leeches some of your FPS your looking at recording at low or at best a mix of medium and low otherwise your gameplay (and recording) is going to be a stuttery messy load of cr@p.