Personally, I'd go for a 965BE with a good board since I like my AMD rigs a lot. But for you, I'd say go for the 2600K a nice Asus or EVGA board 2 X 560Ti GPUs and Ample RAM.
The SSD would be good for the OS get a nice 1TB Drive for programs, a 3TB for data and backups.
A big ass Monitor with 120Hz refresh rates preferable a Touch Screen so you can enjoy the Win 8 Touch stuff when it comes out.:)
I'm getting my FX-8150 in the next week most probably will let you know what's the actual ranking in my opinion