This is your motherboard outputs? http://www.ascendtech.us/mmASC/Images/IMG_0667.jpg
If so, could you borrow VGA cable from someone and to try using it for connecting the board to the monitor? Also, when before you do that, open up the case and remove the video card.
hey sunius, thankx for ur patience.
i have removed my graphics card but when it came out so did the cable that goes to my motherboard, its labled GP and has a GND and SPDIF plug on the motherboard connecting end. their are 3 pins they came off and not sure what 1 goes where.
i have not turned it on yet.