Some brands of the GeForce 9600 don't require a 6 pin power cable. Perhaps your's is one.
If you pull the 9600 and boot, do you get any picture?
You mentioned that you "unplugged some stuff" Any chance something didn't get plugged back in?
no picture i dont think iv ever gotten any picture from the onboard and the only stuff i unplugged was some fans but i plugged those back in
also there is a 6 pin slot in the back but i would like to try to get on board video working until i get the connecter