So yesterday after waiting what felt like an eternity i got my Titan card from Gigabyte
With my current settings skyrim looks very beautifull on my 3 27" monitors.
The best part is still have many more tweaks, that will make skyrim even more beautifull.
For example Ugrids to load which was 5 during the test and to enable 3D on the senter monitor.
The frames per second is not acceptable but disabling the 8AA, redusing some other settings lets me play at 30-40 fps.
Now i just have to wait for my second Titan card so i can actually play skyrim with the settings i want