"each 128Mb DDR memory stick uses 10W! Is that true?"
seems resonable...
"is it proportional to the total Mb of the stick?"
yes, as a general rule: twice as much of the same type memory, twice as much to power it
"And what's the correlation when the memory is overclocked?"
Depends on how succesful you are in keeping the memory more busy due to the overclock...Hmm, interesting question, hah hah did that make any sense?
"Why did Tom's use the 5V to get the power consumption instead of 2.5V, what is the standard for DDR memories?"
I assume that the 2.5V supply is derived off the 5V supply, and Tom's was including the RAMs power supply losses as part of the total RAM subsytem losses. Seems logical if you believe the assumption.