You have XP so you might be in a whole different ballgame. I don't know. I know 0 about XP. My next OS will be Win2000pro, some linux, or Mac(I don't have that kind of money, and besides, where's the fun).
Hi. With ECC you may never know because it will correct errors unless it's to many for the strength of ECC you have. With parity, the system will hang, hopefully not freeze, then you can do a restart and would lose any data which wasn't saved. If you have a task manager program like I do, you can open it up(only during a hang) and terminate, hopefully, the offending program that's open at the moment. You'll still lose data, if you have data to lose, but you won't have to reboot. Also you can get an array of errors that are annoyances that you click out of and you just reopen the screen, file or program. Some will throw you into an instant restart. Freezes, you'll have to manually turn the computer off. Get this. Sometimes the off switch on the computer won't do it. You have to pull the plug out of the wall, or turn off the ups like I have. I've gone through what seems like thousands of these things. Windows is a harsh mistress.