If the bluetooth dongle is working, issue is probably with the phone. Did you check if you can connect it to a PC with bluetooth and if you need drivers for it?
the problem is with the phone. drivers don't appear to be installed in my OS(windows7 32 bit)
but thanks for you response any further info would be welcome.
If I can't get the damn thing to work I will save all my stuff to the 8gb mini card and read it from a card reader a pain in the bum but it will resolve a problem