After having the same confusion as you about this issue, I finally just got off my lazy butt and read the nvidia specifications of DuelDDR architecture.
If you want to utlize the new duel controller (2 seperate Ram controlers running independent of each other, both 64bit, for a total of 128 bit bandwidth, you need to use at least 2 DIMMS).
HOWEVER, what everyone seems to misunderstand, according to the nvidia fact sheet, is that you can use 3 DIMMS. You need to use at least 2 so that both controllers can be working at the same time, but you can also use 3. Just like a normal RAM controller can use 2 or more DIMMS, the dual controller also can use more than one slot.
In order to activate the dualDDR controllers and use the 128bit bandwidth of 2 controllers simultaneously, 1 DIMM must be placed in the 3 slot, and the other can go in the 1 or 2 slot OR you can have all three slots filled with a DIMM chip.
DualDDR means you have 2 controllers, they work in synch with each other to make 128 total bandwidth but otherwise they are no different than a normal single DDR controller in any other chip-set and can utilize more than 2 slots.