I have seen EVERY kind of drive crash or DOA at some point or another. Maxtor, WD, IBM alike. No drive is perfect.
Personally, I prefer WD, because they are fast, quiet, and reliable. They have an awesome warranty system, should you ever need to RMA a drive. You just go to the website, type in the serial number, and they will send you a new drive on the spot, no questions asked. Super easy. Another cool thing about WD (which the other drives seem to lack) is easy jumper arrangement. Master, slave, CS = A, B, or C. None of this "put one jumper sideways and remove the second jumper only if this is the only drive present, otherwise put the first jumper one space to the left and apply the second jumper vertically, unless you want to... etc. etc." crap.
(On a side note, WD is the only mfg to offer a 10,000 rpm SATA drive.)
Maxtors are LOUD and seem to advertise slower access times. But they do offer ATA133 drives, which WD does not.
IBM as a company is on the cutting edge of storage technology, and therefore provides probably the most technologically advanced drives. IBMs are probably the fastest drives, but I tend to stay away because of the "Deathstar" rumors. I've never verified whether there is any truth to these, so I take them with a grain of salt. I owned an 80GB IBM drive for two years and never had a failure. IBM's are the QUIETEST drives I've heard. You have to put your hand on the drive case to be sure it's running, and even then there's hardly any detectible vibration.
At the end of the day, I have been happiest with WD. I trust their products, and I trust their company. However, I would not hesitate to buy an IBM or a Maxtor if the situation called for it.
Final answer: THEY ARE ALL FINE DRIVES. Choose any of them, you will probably be happy. If I had to recommend one, I'd recommend WD (unless you need ATA133).
Oh yeah, one last cool thing about WD is that their model numbers are easy: WD800BB WD1200JB etc.
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