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Women trouble "The friend zone"

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January 14, 2012 9:59:00 AM

Okay so I am afraid I am falling into "the friend zone with a young woman" I really like and love, here is my problem.

Yesterday when we had a decussion about her sister , she said to me:
"youd have made a great brother for a sister ,I have always wanted an older brother"

Then after that she said , "you're an incredible man. How did I get so lucky that you found me in your search?"

(I was seeking out Mormons to make friends with because my brother became one)

She has told me that I am the type of man she wants to marry , the only barrier is our religions , She is a Mormon and Mormonism is not my cup of tea.
however right now this is not the problem.

I feel I am at a point where the next move I make could ethier be the final push into "the friend zone" or I could go into "the long term relationship zone"

I have so many things in common with this young woman it is not funny , I feel she is my "other half" now I feel "whole" just knowing someone this incredible exists, even if we don't end up together I will feel the same way, I feel like a new man.
We have a pretty solid foundation based on friendship, in our relationship.

I feel this woman could be the perfect wife for me, I wish to spend the rest of my life with her, so what would you guys advise about "not falling into the friend zone" ?

cheers.

Note for the ladies:

To any women on here , you never say this to a guy "you are like a brother to me" it is crushing, confidence shattering it is absolutely horrible for the good majority of men , espeacialy if you know he shows an interest in you regarding hooking up or been your boy friend , your safest bet is saying "lets just be friends, your a really great friend and smile softly"

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January 15, 2012 10:23:32 PM

99androidguy777 said:
To any women on here , you never say this to a guy "you are like a brother to me" it is crushing, confidence shattering it is absolutely horrible for the good majority of men , espeacialy if you know he shows an interest in you regarding hooking up or been your boy friend , your safest bet is saying "lets just be friends, your a really great friend and smile softly"


That is so true. And once she said that I think you are pretty much out of the chase. You can be friends with her but don't linger and let the emotion to grow and move on or you will hurt yourself bad.
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