How do i find my windows 7 icon on my laptop

to add icons to the desktop

right click a blank area of desktop then left click personalize then change desktop icons on the left hand side of the box

that opens

There is no Windows 7 icon. There is a Windows "key" though on the keyboard.

http://windows.microsoft.com/en-us/windows7/Add-or-dele...

Look at the bottom under add or remove common desktop icons.