HD-DVD and Blue Ray Black Bars

Hello forumz I have been looking towards HDDVD or BR for my new 40'widescreen monitor ,but I 've seen that most of this "next gen" dvd movies formats are still on 2.35 or 2.40 aspect ratio. I mean WTF this F**ing black bars on top and bottom of my HDTV defeat the purpose of what it was made for !..........no, I don't want any smart*ss anwsers like "dude it's the aspect ratio that the director of that movie shot to film w/ it" ...'cause I seen true HD converted movies like Cinderella Man, The Island,I Robot,The Last Samurai on HBO and other HD movie channels in my HDTV at all it's glory in full screen no Fu**ing black bars !