Best to make sure the modules both have the same chip configuration and latency rating (CL2 or CL3).
128MB built using (8Mx16) chips, for example, will most likely not work with a 256MB module built using (32Mx8) chips.
The most popular chip configuration for both 256MB and 128MB SDRAM modules is (16Mx8).
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