why would i get off the wall driver for a new laptop? what would you recommend?
Just because the laptop is new doesn't mean that the drivers that Asus made when it was released are new. Check Asus' website and NVidia's website to see if they have newer drivers for the 360M.
Also, go into the NVidia control panel on your laptop and check the "system information" section. See what your clock speeds are listed as.
The 360M should certainly be a faster card. Something is definitely not right.