Alright I'll throw some parts at you. But first off I want to thank everyone for the input so far, so here goes:
cpu: AMD 64 3200+ ($190) or 3500+ Venice ($267)
mobo: DFI UT NF4 ($129) or Epox 9NPA+ ($106)
ram: OCZ Gold Series 2-2-2-5 ($138-$15)
gpu: looking at BFG brand 6800GT ($349)/ Ultra ($506)/ 7800Gtx ($619)
psu: totally clueless, currently using an Ultra brand (no problems to date
case: Lian Li PC-61 ($110) <i>undecided</i>
So if I go with the 3200+ I might shift cash to the video card department. My choice of ram is going to determine the motherboard. I'm pretty sure the Epox can't get enough voltage for the OCZ, so if I do get the OCZ then I would get the DFI for the voltage. The DFI however has 2 PCIe slots for god knows what reason. Epox has an extra and more logical pci slot instead which is nice.
As for the case I'm still fairly undecided. I'm very picky about cases and how they look at are layed out. So I don't mind going a little higher on it. Plus I'm going for an aluminum case with mod potential. But that's insignificant, the main focus here is the hardware.