I was in the same position, and when recently buying my new rig, decided to buy what I thought was the MSI VTDR w/ 128, and since the store advertised it as a MSI card, VTD w/ a remote (where they only cut-pasted info of the VTDR from the MSI homepage), I didnt get my remote. Now, I went back later to ask whether or not it was supposed to include a remote, since I did observe that from the MSI cards that the remote comes with the VIVO cards, and this card I bought was the VIVO enabled version. SO the reluctant store-guy phoned up his crazy supplier, and they later told me that tons of people complained how the remote didnt work properly, and MSI had too many problems with it, so they took it out of their packages. Now, I dont know if this is a lie, and i was surely disappointed when I didn't get it in the box, but I guess that's what I get for just thinking that I'm getting what I read on the computer store's webpage... but the part # was the same.. ah well, no big loss, but i am still a little disappointed.