I'm kinda confused why MTV's show Jackass is still on the air after all those kids got hurt breaking legs and jumping in fires. If they are going to keep this show on the air, then why did they pull Beavis & Butthead's FIRE FIRE routine?
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I can think of two reasons:
1. The defenition of what is immoral is constantly changing. The first time something happens, it's a shock and things get banned. The second time, it's contravercial. The third time it's grudingly allowed to continue. The fourth time, it's no longer important.
2. With Beavis and Butthead, the actions of a child were blamed on TV even though it was hardly the TV's fault. This time though, it's obviously TV's fault, so it's not as contravercial because everyone would agree that it's TV's fault. Hence no personal fame is gained by crusading against it.
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OK, please explain to me how this is "obviously" TV's fault.
Any sensible mature person who has seen Jackass will
A. Notice the numerous disclaimers
B. Recognize that attempting to emulate the various jackasses on the show will result in greivous injury
C. Realize that these are likely professional stuntmen and that it is only entertainment, not a lifestyle.
Of course, you will answer me by saying "Children can't tell the difference!"
Of course they can't. But at this point, why are the parents not supervising their activities? I'm sorry, but television, especially a show on MTV, has no responsibility to be a surrogate parent for impressionable youths. Every single "accident" that has occured when kids tried to do the stunts is a result of either poor parental supervision, or plain stupidity (see the darwin awards thread elsewhere in the forum)
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I didn't think sensible mature people watched Jackass!
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Don't even begin to try to tell <i>me</i> what <i>I</i> think. You have no idea what I think. And it shows. I wasn't stating my case on what my opinions on the matter were. I was simply providing the reasoning to answer dhlucke's question.
As for my personal opinions, I wouldn't even dare suggest that, "Children can't tell the difference!", because they bloody well can and do if they're taught to.
However, it is a proven fact that some children will try to emulate that which they see people DOING in TV shows and in movies. Anyone who ever saw the kids that come out of a Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtle movie in the theater will know that without question.
There is a very large difference between saying that fire is cool and going out and torching a house. There is little difference though in showing people doing stupid things and people getting hurt by trying to do the same stupid things.
Had Beavis and Butthead run around burning down houses frequently, I'd say that there is no difference. But since they didn't, there is a difference. It's just plain irresponsible of the people producing that TV show to ignore that difference.
And in fact, I would completely agree with you that if anyone is to be primarily to blame, it's the <b>PARENTS</b> who: A) aren't watching their kids, and B) aren't taking the time to involve themselves in what their kids watch / screening what their kids watch. And even C) are using TV as a baby-sitter/teacher because they couldn't be bothered to make the time to spend with their children.
Be that as it may though, TV obviously carries <i>some</i> of the blame for this case as well. I'd say it's 75% parent's fault and 25% TV's fault in this case.
<i>THAT'S</i> my personal opinion.
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That show is a total Tom Green ripoff. Bunch of morons. Tom Green is 100000000x better.
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These guys were doing this stuff way before Tom Green hit MTV. But he may have opened the door for them.
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Shows like Tom Green and Jackass were accually public access shows that were picked up and somehow got to the big markets.
The only reason people think Jacksass is so funny is because it is stupid and the stupid things they do on that show. Before the show starts and during the show it says to NOT TRY THIS AT HOME! People who have gotten hurt because they were copying that show have only themselves to blame. Most of the people on that show are professional stuntmen that know how not to get hurt.
Fair enough reply, but...
First. Your statement "it is a proven fact that some children will try to emulate that which they see people DOING in TV shows and in movies" can hardly be considered a "proven fact" since you are merely restating the current popular opinion of the media. Does entertainment influence children's behavior? Maybe. But I would argue a kid that is maladjusted enough to start fires would do so even if he/she hadn't already seen it on TV.
Most arguments that begin "It's a proven fact..." are fallacious.
Second, if you are going to reference a show, specifically Jackass, please do not misrepresent it. No stunt on Jackass has been "let's burn down a house". There have been stunts involving fire, of course, but saying "let's cover our host in flame retardant material and set him on fire" is far different than "let's burn down someone's house". As far as I know (and of course, I may be wrong) there has never been a "house burning" stunt. If you have actually seen it, let me know.
Lastly, I cannot agree with your final statement about TV bearing some of the responsibility. I find it fairly ludicrous that so many people assume TV has some sort of moral responsibilty. Every person has their own moral code. You might not agree with the moral code of the cast of Jackass - that's fine. Don't watch it and don't let your children watch. But to say, "I think it is irresponsible to have stunts involving fire" and to assume that TV is going to agree with that statement and apply it is ridiculous.
Is Jackass a dumb show? Absolutely. Do I think it bears any responsibility for the mishaps that have occured? Not at all.
And that's <i>my</i> opinion.
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Think about it-50% of the popluation is below average. This HAS TO BE TRUE with percentile scoring. It explains why kids listen to RAP music and then form gangs in rural and suburban communities. It explains why kids think it's OK to carry guns. It explains why my stepdaughter thinks ALL black guys are cool and hairy chest are disgusting. It explains why kids are mimicking WWF wresters in their front yards. It explains how a 12 year old boy recently killed his 6 year old sister trying to mimic a WWF stunt (and no, he really wan't trying to injure her). The Government of the United States has mandated that it is unlawfull to punish your kids or even to restrict their freedom, yet hold parents responsible for a childs actions. There is a concept that moral values go in cycles-eventually things get so bad that a moral revolution takes place, and then everything shifts toward moral oppression, then slowly reverts back to moral dissorder. The only middle ground occurs in the middle of the cycle.
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tom green does that kind of stuff too... like bringing a cow into a grocery store and sucking on it's udder "this is how you drink fresh milk"
hes like "AHH AHH AHH MMMM" like he was scuking a dick LOL
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Bunnystroker..
I'm not sure how old you are, or which generation I should put you in, but for as young as I am I've seen TV shows change A LOT over the years.
I grew up on sesame street and mr rogers. I watched GI joe and transformers. Bugs Bunny and Scooby Doo. Charlie Brown and Yogi Bear...you get the idea. Star Wars might have been the most violent thing around basically. 2 Live Crew was probably the most vulgar.
Today kids watch Pokemon, Digimon, Jackass, listen to completely inappropriate music etc. Granted I'm going across a wide spectrum of ages, but one thing is a definite: I wouldn't have been ALLOWED to watch this stuff as a kid and neither would any of my friends. Yet today, these shows are tailored for kids, and they watch them.
You really don't think that TV and film are influencing our kids.....do you remember anyone jumping in a fire when you were younger (assuming you're around my age)? Do you realize how early drugs are introduced to kids nowadays? Where do they get the ideas for guns?
Maybe it's the parents fault, but is it their fault for allowing their kids to be influenced or is it their fault for letting these shows on the air at all?
I brought this up also because Beavis & Butthead was a cartoon and Jackass isn't. That makes a huge difference. Apparently that one kid that tried to jump over a car and was instead hit by his friend didn't get the idea from the show directly. He got the idea from the commercial preview! It doesn't take much.
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It still has nothing to do with TV. If you allow the TV to raise your child then yes. If the television is their primary influence in life instead of their parents where else are they going to look to.
For example, I have a friend here who is Palastinian. He was born and raised with real life violence surrounding him. He came over to this country at age 10 to live with an uncle. For all the crap this guy has seen and dealt with in his life, I'm suprised he's not out shooting people for kicks. He is the first to thank his parents for taking care of him.
If you can actually find them try looking at some of the cartoons from the 40's and 50's. Now those were some brutally violent cartoons. They dont even show many of them on TV anymore because they say it corrupts childrens minds. I dont think anyone in the past ever tried to put a stick of TNT up someone's butt.
If your stepdaughter wasnt into black guys and rap music, she might be into M.Manson or something else. I dont know a kid who goes through a identity crisis at one point in their life. I believe if the parents instill enough wisdom in their children, they'll have enough fortitude to get on the right track.
By most kids and teenagers standards I'm starting to get old. I liked rap music and the wwf when I was young. I still like it now. There was a time in my life when I swore I was going to be just like Ice-T and NWA. When a gun was placed in my hand all I could think of was what the hell my family would think of me.
There is a line that is crossed when some of these things occur. It's up to the parents to form that line in their childrens head and make sure they stay on the right side of it. They have to stop sitting their kids in front of a playstation and think it's okay because they are quiet and not bothering them. It's got to be laid at the parents feet.
If you take a truth and follow it blindly, it will become a Falsehood and you a Fanatic.
Sure, I barely watched TV. Maybe that's the major difference. Kids today are completely dependent on TV it seems.
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Those old cartoons weren't removed for those reasons. If you are refering to the old WB cartoons, they were removed due to old racist stereotypes offending people. Remember the old Red indian cartoons? I forgot about those until I read an article the other day. They also got rid of the cartoons that portrayed black people in a bad light etc...
The dynamite stuff should still be on.
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This is turning out to be an interesting thread.
First of all, I have to say that I found your post pretty offensive, Crashman. Believe it or not, people listen to RAP music because they find artistic value in it. Your whole "black guy" tangent made me uncomfortable as well.
But anyway, I'm 20 years old. So I grew up with Sesame Street and G.I. Joe and whatnot too. Is programming today different? Yes, probably. Is it "offensive" and "shocking" as a whole? I don't really think so.
It's kind of interesting how people always think of culture as static. It's not. Culture is constantly changing, reflecting the ideas and opinions of new generations. Naturally, those that are part of an older generation often are uncomfortable with the new values the younger ones hold. This has been happening for centuries. The ridiculous thing is that people convienently "forget" how shocking Elvis was 50 years ago, and how "outrageous" the Beatles were with their wild haircuts.
So, dhlucke, when you say that music today is "inappropriate", I simply can't agree. I don't believe that any artistic expression can be deemed to be "inappropriate". Does that mean that I like a lot of the music today? Of course not. I think a lot of it is absolute tripe. But I certainly don't think that it's "harming" a generation of children.
Do I think that TV has no influence on children? Of course not. But remember, kids went crazy and killed people long before there was rap music and "inappropriate" television. Statistically, in any large population a small percentage will simply have psychological problems that manifest themselves in horrible ways.
In the end, I agree with Pettytheft - the onus lies with the parents. The popular reactionary response of "THE MEDIA IS RUINING OUR CHILDREN!" carries little weight. If children have loving parents that care about them, they will be just fine. If they don't, than it's no surprise when they turn out to be screwed up. Still, the current vibe of the american public is to believe that if we can somehow "protect" the children from "bad" ideas, then bad things will stop happening. They won't.
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IF you find the truth to be offinsive, so be it. The fact that my stepdaughter thinks all young black men are sexy is a fact, and it is a form of discrimination (on her part) to say that ANY group as a whole has certain atributes (for here to think that all black men are sexy is just as bas as for someone else to think that all blondes are dumb or that all Germans are Nazis). The fact that you would find this statement offensive, while not the one about hairy chested men, proves that you have fallen prey to the same disease-falling for whatever seems poplular at the time. BTW. I am just old enough to remember when long hair was sexy, and hairy chested men were considered more masculine, and masculinity was considered sexy by most meterosexual american women Remember Magnum PI? When that show first came out young women dreamed of running their fingers though his chest hair. Now actors shave there chest just so women won't be disgusted. So to find all hairy chested men disgusting is just as bad as to find all black men sexy, all blondes dumb, or anything else. It is a media stereotype that stupid people buy into. Every person I've talked to in their late 20's remembers with great embarisment the fads they followed in their teens, proving that following fads is a task for embiciles. This is all the truth, there are no alternative answers, there are no other justifiable viewpoints, this is not a matter of opinion, like the AMD v. Intel debates, it is instead a matter of fact, like "if you jump off a 20 story building you will die" or "if you castrate yourself you will be sterile".
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That was a good read!
1st of all there was never a stunt in jackass of someone trying to jump over a car. I even saw an interview with one of his friends who filmed the stunt, He said that they did not get the stunt idea form jackass. The show might have influenced him to try and do something crazy but who cares. I say it’s too bad he didn’t die. That way his stupid genes would have been removed form the gene pool forever.
I think parents are 90% to blame, I see so many kid running around unsupervised. We all have seen kids misbehaving in the store or restaurant. You know, the kid that is pounding on the table or pulling magazines and dumping them on the floor all the while the parents never seem to notice. Kids today have no self-control and no self discipline. It’s sad the way kids talk back to parents. Lots of parents just let the TV or the computer be the babysitter.
I agree the stuff on TV is much more graphic then before and the music is hard core now. Like ICP for example, those lyrics are super hard core. The Internet is not a place for kids unsupervised. I know what I would have been doing and age 12. Clicking on every link in the porn thread.
Face it parents your kids are F***ing at 12 and 13, smoking pot drinking and worse. What are all the parents doing, Hell if I know, maybe playing Everquest.
What’s the solution? All I know for sure is it’s not simple. It probably requires changes in all the subjects I mentioned and thing we and not even thought of yet. One thing is for certain. Things are going to get a lot worse before they get better.
I know that not all kids and bad and not all parents suck, just most of em
so don’t flame me for generalizing.
Don’t misunderstand me, I go to GWAR & NIN concerts (in the PIT), watch jackass and actually like some ICP songs. What dose all this mean? I have no idea. If you do let me know.
NEwayz that’s my rant degrading in ramble.
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All music has artistic value in my opinion. I personally like everything except maybe country. If your kid listens to 2 Pac I see the value in his music. I don't think a person would get too many bad ideas from his music. But certain artists just preach a bunch of crap and vulgarity, they have no artistic value and only survive by sampling other successful artists and swearing in between the beats. In the end they might have a cool song but with lots of stuff that is inappropriate for a child. Once again there is a spectrum of ages that we would have to consider, but a 9 year old shouldn't be listening to certain material. We can, but they shouldn't. Yet our pop culture of today really subscribes to it. I'm not sure what my parents would do today, but as a child growing up our society's morals told us that listening to a bunch of vulgarity wasn't quite right until you were old enough. Maybe we were the first to push the limits when 2 Live crew came out with their controversial songs. Nowadays they aren't that controversial though.
Yes, the beatles and elvis and all the rest were considered controversial in one way or another, but neither were vulgar. Is the definition of vulgar and inappropriate changing?
One thing that I find interesting also is the way we're raised with sex and how americans portray it in our pop culture. It's very different from the way europe does it. Maybe if we were more open with our sexuality the way europeans are in everything from commercials to nude beaches etc. we wouldn't have this violent and often tasteless portrait of it in our pop culture. I think europeans are much more comfortable with their sexuality and the human body. I can't really explain this properly, but if a 9 year old in Europe sees naked women on the beach or on a billboard or most likely at home he's probably influenced differently than a 9 year old in the USA seeing a naked women being [-peep-] or what not in a song or on the big screen for the first time. Sure must make some kind of difference to a child's developement.
Overall I think things have changed and if parents don't take the time to censure their children to only watch stuff when they are at the right age in our pop culture then you get some weird affects on our society. Maybe I'm just getting old, but I think PBS is probably the best station for younger kids nowadays. I remember getting up to watch saturday morning cartoons, but it just doesn't look the same anymore.
By the time you have a teenager hopefully you've done something right, 'cause then they're on their own for the most part.
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Don't kill the messenger. I saw a report on one of those entertainment shows and they showed the kid's footage and the version that was from the show. The stunt was pulled from the show.
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OK, let me get this straight, Crashman.
We were discussing media influence. You jump in with "It explains why my stepdaughter thinks ALL black guys are cool and hairy chest(sic) are disgusting".
So...the "fact" that your stepdaughter thinks black men are cool can only be attributed to a media brainwashing. I see. So can the "fact" that she doesn't like chest hair.
So can the "fact" that kids in rural areas listen to rap.
Of course I find this offensive. You never even consider the possibility that your step-daughter could hold a valid opinion of her own. Rather, you've already passed judgement on an issue - if she disagrees, she must be brainwashed by the media.
What if she met a black man with chest hair?
The fact that you pulled this ridiculous and illogical race argument out of your nether regions is proof enough that you at the very least are insensitive to the race issue.
I don't care if your title is "Ancient Poster Extraordinaire L33T HAX0R"; When you spout off ignorance that clearly indicate that you have issues with black culture I'm going to call you on it.
You can, of course, hold your own opinion. Nothing wrong with that. But trying to pass your opinions off as established fact is a rather poor persuasive method and frankly an insult to the intelligence of everyone in these forums.
But of course, your closing argument is genius:
"This is all the truth, there are no alternative answers, there are no other justifiable viewpoints, this is not a matter of opinion, like the AMD v. Intel debates, it is instead a matter of fact, like "if you jump off a 20 story building you will die" or "if you castrate yourself you will be sterile".
Bravo.
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Well, your entitiled to your opinion just as I am entitiled to my facts. If your too ignorant to understand that saying "all black men are cool" is the same type of stereotype as "all (put any race in her) are stupid", then that's your problem, but I think the more educated would agree with me on this FACT. And that MOST PEOPLE can be brainwashed into whatever the current popular ideology is is also FACT, otherwise you would have to assume that millions of Germans really were bad people under Hitlers rule, as opposed to being brainwashed. And the declining popularity of hairy chested men can only be contributed to the same type of bnadwagon chasing. Or the increasing popularity of any other cultural sect. These type of stereotypes disrupt the social balance, wheras in a balanced society everyone has value, not just certain people with particular physical characterisitics. IT is a negative influence which will eventually lead to a social backlash. Some particular group (Perhaps white hairy chest men? Not likely!) will be seriously hurt.
Why do so many kids involve themselves in school shootings? Someone else gave them the idea that it would be the best way to express themselves. Why do so many kids do drugs? You've probably never heard of "peer pressure"? Why do so many kids try stupid stunts to get onto jackass? Maybe because they think it's possible. I've come to the conclusion that most people do NOT have a will of their own, they are like lemmings following the flock. This can have positive influence, such as when people are encourages to reduce their waste production for the envronmental movement, or it can have negative consequences, such as millions of girls starving themselves so they can look like supermodels. Although I have not stated those last two points as being factual, most people can agree that they are the most likely causes of their associated problems.
While it may be true that these influences happen because of a lack of parental guidence, the FACT remains that they still happen.
As to the parodox of my stepdaughter meeting a young black hairy chested man, I don't think she has ran into that delema yet, but when she does I believe it will be very confusing for her. It would prove that her opinion is illogical, sure, but I only restated her opinion, I did not validate it. It's not my problem, and I did not raise her. If I had, maybe she would see the value in all people, not just one racial group that she can asociate with her favorite type of music.
Speaking of music, do you think RAP would have been popular 30 years ago? Or modern rock in the 1800's? Most people's OPINIONS are shaped by their environment! Even though I try to be more reasonable than that, I must admit that even I get caught up by lifes luxuries sometimes. Let me not present too many FACTS for you to absorb right now, go rest your brain and give me another snappy comeback. Oh, and please THINK OUT A LOGICAL REBUTAL next time to prove me wrong, instead of simply calling me illogical without proof!
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So your telling me there was a stunt in jackass where some one jumped over a car going 50MPH? Be very specific what stunt they were trying to emulate.
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First off, please forgive me for taking so long to reply, but I'm just not on the internet constantly.
Now, to get to the heart of the matter about a few issues:
Bunnystroker, I think it's pretty appearant that you have a thing or two to learn. Dropping your self-rightous act and actually thinking for yourself and listening to others would make you a <i>lot</i> more insteresting to talk with.
For example, your whole "proven fact" rant only proved that you didn't actually try to listen to anything that I said.
Let me go over my statement.
It is a <b>proven fact</b> that <b>some</b> children will <b>try to</b> emulate that which they see people doing in TV shows and in movies.
It IS a proven fact, like it or not. I never once even suggested that ALL children do this. I merely pointed out the fact that SOME children TRY TO do this. Go ahead and try to disprove that if it really makes you feel better to do so. But I doubt that anyone would agree with you if you did argue against that statement.
That being said, <i>any</i> TV show or movie not specifically targetted at adults only carries <i>some</i> responsability for the behavior of children.
It is still, BY FAR, the parent's responsability for how their children act. But it is not entirely the parent's responsability. It is only MOSTLY the parent's responsability. Influences such as TV, radio, teachers, and even neighbors are all PARTLY responsible as well.
This is all that I was saying. That while most of the fault of bad children lies on the parent's head, society and it's media also play a small but definite role in the behavioral patterns of the bad child, and really ANY child, simply because parents cannot protect their children from society 24/7. Children will be influenced by things and people other than their parents. This cannot be helped. And it is irresponsible for anyone to assume that they are not a part of this because that, by definition, is what society IS.
You even say in another post later, "Do I think that TV has no influence on children? Of course not." So you readily admit that TV has <b>SOME</b> influence on children. How can you admit that TV does hold even a tiny fraction of a bit of influence, and yet bears <b>NO</b> responsability for making sure that it is a good influence?
You can't have it both ways. At least not without sounding like a confused person who doesn't really know what they believe.
Next, I NEVER said that any show other than BandB did anything with burning houses. There was absolutely <b>NO</b> misrepresentation. If you had actually <b>READ</b> my post with any intention of <b>LISTENING</b> to a word I was saying, you would know this.
So, for your edification, I will simply point out that what I was saying is that there is a large difference in someone on a TV show <i>saying</i>, "Fire is cool.", and a kid hearing that and going out and burning down a house, and someone on a TV show <i>doing</i> a stupid stunt and some kid going out and emulating that stunt. So to sum up my point, there is a large difference between <i>saying</i> something and <i>doing</i> something.
Now, as for your ludicrous offense taken from Crashman, I don't think you really understand just what discrimination is.
If I say something like, "All single white males with blue eyes and red hair are stupid.", <b>THAT</b> is me being discriminating.
If I however say, "My sister thinks that all single white males with blue eyes and red hair are stupid.", that is <b>MY SISTER</b> being discriminating. And I am merely using her bias as an example. In such a case, her bias should in no way be seen as my bias. For anyone to assume otherwise is discrimination against me.
If you want to take offense, fine. That's your choice. If you feel uncomfortable, fine. That's your problem. But just know that there is <b>NO</b> discrimination in the way that Crahsman said anything. So for you to take offense and to feel uncomfortable only shows your own inadiquacies.
And it is people like you who take offense over things that aren't even said in an offensive way that are screwing things up just as bad as the bigots.
For example, if I say to a co-worker, male, female, or other, that they are wearing a nice shirt, that is in no way sexual harassment to that person or to anyone else.
Yet there are cases where a person like you with inadiquacy problems hears someone tell someone else that they have a nice shirt, and then that person goes and files a sexual harassment charge against the person who gave a harmless compliment. And when asked why they feel harassed, they come up with the stupidest reasoning like, "Because I felt that if they were judging that person on their looks, then because my shirt isn't as nice I'm being treated differently and to please them I have to go out and get shirts that are just as nice. But even then because I won't ever look as good in even that same shirt as that other person will, I will always be discriminated against for not looking as nice."
And worse, at times stupid judges and jurries have actually sided with the person who had inadiquacy problems and set precidents that now make it impossible for any one in the workplace to ever compliment another co-worker without fear of being taken to court over a perfectly beneficial compliment.
And it's that kind of garbage where people take offense over things that aren't even in the slightest way offensive because they're just oversensitive that is screwing up the world just as much as some [pick any race, gender, religion, age, etc.] bigot who goes out and says that all [pick any race, gender, religion, age, etc.] suck.
So I suggest to you that before you take offense over something, maybe you should think about it to see if anything actually said was ever offensive in the first place, or if you're just being over-sensitive on an issue.
If I say, "Hitler hated Jews.", I am not in any way being discriminatory. I am merely pointing out that Hitler was. And if anyone takes offense to me saying that Hitler was a bigot, then that person taking offense really needs to examine just why they found it offensive, because it's a completely different thing than had I said, "Jews suck." (Which I would never say such a thing other than in this rare example of things that what I said doesn't mean.)
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Hey man if someone is attracted to a certain type of person it's not a big deal. I wouln't ever date a fat ugly chick. Truth is I'm not too big on blonds either. I dont know if I was brainwashed or not but that's just the way I feel. Now If I went as far as to say I dont like fat people or blond chicks and I refused to hang out with these people for this reason, well then that would be wrong.
If you take a truth and follow it blindly, it will become a Falsehood and you a Fanatic.
I think Crahsman's point is not that it's bad to be attracted to a certain type of person, but to think that ALL of that certain type of person are great is being a bit biased.
Especially when you've never even met ANY of that type of person to begin with.
How can you think that someone is great if you've never even met them?
You wouldn't pre-judge anyone like that unless for one reason or another it has been imprinted upon you to. I wouldn't quite go as far as to say brainwashing, but others would.
I think that's Crahsman's point.
Correct me if I'm wrong Crahsman.
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Obviously we disagree fairly strongly on this issue, and it is unlikely either of us is going to change our minds.
That said, your second post is rather insulting.
| Quote : Bunnystroker, I think it's pretty appearant that you have a thing or two to learn. |
Oh, like how to make a point by making words <b>bold</b> or ALL IN CAPS?
| Quote : Dropping your self-rightous act and actually thinking for yourself and listening to others would make you a lot more insteresting to talk with. |
Hmm...I argue that parents alone are responsible for children, and that the media is merely a convenient scapegoat. THIS IS A LUDCRIOUS ARGUMENT AND IT IS <b>CLEAR</b> (Note bold caps! Wow!) I DIDNT LISTEN TO ANYONE ELSES ARGUMENTS AT ALL!
| Quote : You even say in another post later, "Do I think that TV has no influence on children? Of course not." So you readily admit that TV has SOME influence on children. How can you admit that TV does hold even a tiny fraction of a bit of influence, and yet bears NO responsability for making sure that it is a good influence?
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You actually make a fairly good argument here. To clarify my position, I will say this. TV does influence some children, perhaps some in a negative fashion. However, I would argue that the children who are going to be thusly influenced are screwed up to begin with. If they are influenced by TV, why not music then? If you take away the music, they will be influenced by books. Hell, some people have been influenced in a very negative manner by the Bible. Would you block that next?
The point is, you can't "hide" a child from ideas. Suggesting that parents can shield a child from "bad" influences is naive.
| Quote : Now, as for your ludicrous offense taken from Crashman, I don't think you really understand just what discrimination is. |
I never claimed discrimination. I claimed ignorance.
| Quote : But just know that there is NO discrimination in the way that Crahsman said anything |
Again, I never claimed "discrimination". What I said is that it is offensive how he disdainfully spoke of stepdaughter liking all black men and of rural kids liking rap. The fact that he regards liking rap or black men as only possible due to "media brainwash" is proof that he has issues with liking rap on its own.
You're damn right I find that offensive. The fact that he introduced a race tangent to an argument that had nothing to do with it is inappropriate in itself. Now, I would be a fool to think that nobody on this server harbored beliefs I find to be offensive. I'm not bothered by that. But when someone starts spouting off garbage like that, I will not just let it go. Even though I never "acutally [think] for [myself]", I'm not going to sit and watch some guy say "Yeah! Rural kids like rap because they are brainwashed! My stepdaughter thinks ALL black men are cool! The only way that could have happened is that the TV told her that!"
| Quote : And it is people like you who take offense over things that aren't even said in an offensive way that are screwing things up just as bad as the bigots. |
Spoken like a true WASP.
Of course, you then introduce your ridiculous "frivolous sexual harrasment lawsuit" tangent. The issue here is not over-sensitivity. Believe it or not, I'm not threatening a lawsuit (gasp!), and nor am I trying to be over-reactionary. I am merely pointing out that a certain argument smacks of deep-seated prejudices, and that it has no place within the context of the debate.
| Quote : If I say, "Hitler hated Jews.", I am not in any way being discriminatory. I am merely pointing out that Hitler was. And if anyone takes offense to me saying that Hitler was a bigot, then that person taking offense really needs to examine just why they found it offensive, because it's a completely different thing than had I said, "Jews suck." |
Absolutely true. But consider the following conversation.
Person A: "I think the media influences children"
Person B: "Yeah, it does! Why else would my daughter like jews?"
That's far closer to what actually occured, and yes, person B is being rather offensive.
But anyway, this is a rather long post, and I am "uninteresting" person, so I'll end it here.
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Thanks for being the only person on the forum strong enough to admit he understands my point! I think this issue is too hot for most people to touch! As soon as you mention race, religion, culture, sexual preference, or anything else like that two things happen-the majority of people run and those who stay are the ones who are willing to fight! A great way to start a good debate!
Cast not thine pearls before the swine
Hey, you might actually have an opinion of your own there, especially the thing about not prefering blonds, as they are very popular these days. Some people do have opinions, and then, some poeple don't. If you knew my daughter, you would know that she has no opinions of her own, she simply follows the latest trends for people who have fallen into her social group, "as seen on TV".
Cast not thine pearls before the swine
Oh, I am bi-racial. My mother is native american, my father is Swedish. Perhaps that's why I am attacted to people of medium skin tone with dark hair, and light skined blonds? Now that, sir, would be imprinting. Even I am not totally imune from it. As for my step daughter, she had made up her mind about certain groups of people without having met them. If you favor a certain group with total conviction, it is as bad as disfavoring a certain group with the same conviction.
Why did I bring up the race issue? To start a debate. It is obvious from knowing my stepdaughter that EVERY opinion she has is imprinted from outside the home. It is just as important to remember that teachers can have MORE influence on children than their parents, expecially when the teacher spends MORE TIME with the child than the parent does.
The same can be said of television. What's worse with TV is that children see kids of their own age group that they can identify with acting a certain way. Which helps to explain why the 1980's was the decade of partying, while the 90's was the decade of self-loathing.
Do you like disco? Would anyone have liked disco had it not seemed like the "thing to do" at the time? I had a freind who, at the age of 8, jumped off the roof of his house with a cape because he thought the cape would make him glide to the ground. I wounder where he got that idea, any thoughts?
Although much of this nonsense is the fault of parents, it becomes harder to hold them totaly responsible when we understand that, at this time, both are expected to work, and neither are allowed to teach their chidren values under our modern educational system.
So if parents are unable to raise their children properly because of external social pressures, who do we blame for that fact, the womens movement that took women out of the home? But they have the right to work also, so maybe more men should stay home to raise their children? Women cannot have it all, if one decides that she wants to raise children, she should put that task AHEAD of her career. If she cannot, then she should not have children.
Why should we place such a heavy choice on a womans shoulders instead of the mans? Because women SHOULD nurse their children at least until they are old enough to eat solid food-that is what nature intended. If a man agrees to stay home with the child instead, that is up to the individual couple, but the fact remains that ONE PARENT should be there FULL TIME for the child at least until that child is old enough to go to school.
Our modern "enlightenment" is leaving our children without direction. It is societies fault, and since I am part of this society, I am obligated to speek my mind concerning this matter.
Cast not thine pearls before the swine
I agree with Crashman and slvr_phoenix on this one.
"Absolutely true. But consider the following conversation.
Person A: "I think the media influences children"
Person B: "Yeah, it does! Why else would my daughter like jews?"
I don't think that's exactly what he was meaning by what crash said. I think he wasn't exactly talking about the media in that aspect, but rather the influences around his step-daughters life. Where she grew up, what kind of people she hangs around, or maybe it's something psychological. My friend is part black and part white, he hates black people because of something his black dad did when my friend was younger. I'm not saying that is the case with crash's step daughter, but there are circumstances. Parents need to watch what crowd their children hang out with, what they watch on tv, and certain types of music are extremely inappropriate for an 8 year old child to listen to.
Parents are responsible for their children. They should monitor what is happening in their child's life. Not every child will see a stunt on WWF and try to emulate it, but some will, that's why they've come out with parental controls, and so on and so forth!
<Common Sense is a gift that some of us have returned.>
This thread got a bit weird. It's more a play on words now than anything. I'm staying out of it.
If anyone still doesn't believe me regarding the guy trying to jump over a car, please contact the TV show EXTRA. I'm pretty sure that's where I saw it.
Crashman, can you read swedish? I occasionally whip some out when people write incoherent posts
To draw some kind of conclusion (and honestly I'm pretty confused about what people think now after reading about 50 pages of posts), I've got to think that the media has some kind of influence. Parents nonetheless are ultimately responsible since they are the ones that let their children sit in front of the TV for hours on end unsupervised.
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Yes, there are many influences on a child, and this is where the media has a double-impact; even if the child is not convinced of an idea the media presents, they will most likely be convinced by their friends, who were more easily convinced than they were by media stereotypes!
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