Help please

Um what?

this is a forum, we don't attend, you can't tell who's male, and that's irrelevant.

If you'd like the mail man you could always mail yourself a letter.

I might be able to find you a nice female man if you have an address.

If you have an actual question then ask it and take the free help you get

This is ridiculous. This a forum for everyone. If you're going to be sexist, go elsewhere. And it's not just because I'm a girl. It's because you don't sign up on an online forum to ask for male help. You need to see a psychiatrist.