That gives me a much better idea of where you are at...
#1. Hardware. I personally prefer to buy AMD barebones kits due to cost concerns. Performance per dollar is just impossible for Intel to beat. Look at Tigerdirect and Newegg.com for affordable AMD based barebones kits.
On the Windows end of things...
In the typical enterprise environment you will find a lot of Windows XP still knocking around, and Windows 7, what you do not see much of is Vista, or 8, and for very good reasons. For servers, 2003 is still out there, but like XP, is being phased out, fast. Server 2008 is really the big thing you see in production. Adoption of server 2012 has been very slow. I suspect it will be the Vista of server operating systems.
On the Linux / Unix side of things...
The undisputed king of U.S. Enterprise class Linux is Red Hat Enterprise Linux, however it comes with support subscription fees that would gag a goat... For non production / learning purposes, I would use a distribution based on recompiling the GPL source code from Red Hat. The most common are CentOS and Scientific Linux. Oracle also recompiles RHEL and resells it at a lower cost than Red Hat, and with some tweaks specifically tuned for database work. Not something I would give serious looks into... I personally use and like CentOS.
The runner up in the U.S. and king of European enterprise Linux is SuSe from Novell. Their Open SuSe product is freely available, and will let you get your feet wet with that distribution.
The big contender is Ubuntu. Many third party enterprise class software vendors are now supporting Ubuntu as well as RHEL and SuSe.
You say you want to more or less master A+ (mostly IT generalist stuff) and Network+. Those are good certifications, but honestly you can get through then by reading a book. If you want to ace the test, and really impress an interviewer for a job, you need to have your hands on the type of stuff you will be working with in the field. Even if it is SOHO oriented gear, you should be able to prove skills in the following areas.
#1. Desktop administration, and troubleshooting. This means installing, patching, adding software and drivers to, user administration, file system administration, security etc...
#2. Server administration. Same as Desktop administration, but add administration of network services, distributed file systems (SAN / NAS), and server services such as web server, file server, database, directory services etc... I do not know if A+ covers clustering, I somewhat doubt it, but check the CompTIA website to verify... I know in the real world, clusters and virtualization are huge...
#3. Network administration. Everything from the physical build, to enabling network services such as DNS, DHCP, Firewalling, VPN, etc...
I know it seems like an awful lot to absorb all at once. Like I mention above, get the book for the test you want to master, and aim your study around that. I am presently working on my RHCE, with an eye toward RHCSA, (Already have A+, Linux+, RHCSA, MCP, and a stack of Brainbench certs...). It is kind of like eating an elephant, Do it one bite at a time...
Mind you, not that I want more competition in the job market, but I have to be honest here. Windows guys are a dime a dozen, super easy to come by, so the don't command the bucks UNIX / Linux admins do. If I were just starting out again, I would be aiming toward Linux certifications as quickly as I could master them... It has served me well and helped me make a decent living for my family...