If the car battery is draining, either something has been left on, the car's electronics have a short circuit somewhere which is constantly draining charge, or the battery is close to dying and needs to be replaced.
A decent service station or auto store will have a device which can test the battery to see if it needs to be replaced. If the battery is fine, you're going to have the difficult task of figuring out where the short circuit is.
If the car battery is not charging or not charging quickly, either your battery is dying and needs to be replaced, or the alternator is malfunctioning.
It is highly unlikely that your cell phone or iPod has anything to do with it. The typical car battery is 12V 45 amp-hours. Or about 540...