I know it's slightly over, if you raelly have to stick to £1000 then let me know and ill shuffle about a bit
I chose AMD because it's a lot cheeper allowing you to get better components.
If you dont want the 3D kit and monitor then you can get in the Asus 580 Matrix which is one of the best graphics cards.
Included you have the best AMD motherboard available, a really good CPU and i've realised that i forgot about your HDD and optical, but im guessing your using a computer now rite?
If not again let me know and ill shuffle a bit
In my build youll be able to run BF3 in ultra/ish with a little tweek on your GPU, otherwise get the matrix and leave out the 3D for now, the matrix will do anyything you throw at it.
My apologies about the monitor i didnt read it all, its rather a 3D "effect"
And its not a 3D graphics card, you just need an Nvidia card rater than ATI and the 3D kit with a 3D monitor
How much could you push your budget? If you could go up to £1150ish then get this monitor: http://www.ebuyer.com/243897-benq-xl2410t-lcd-led-3d-re...
Its the one i use
My suggestion woud be to get the matrix on my build, and leave out the 3D kit and monitor for a little while, maybe buy one piece a month over 2 months?
But for what your uses are you wont need to over spen on an intel chip
For my build without the 3D kit and monitor but with an asus matrix 580 it comes just under £1000
Or mix and match between me and proximon by all means